两个服役期间认识的男人结成深厚的友情，玛吉密退伍后，玛吉密一个娶了漂亮的老婆在餐厅里当三流水平却也努力向上的厨师，他在对其总是板起严厉苛求脸孔的妻子面前总是装做一幅忠诚维诺的样子，内心充满了叛逆的因子。而另一个则成为外币买卖界人气日上、前途无量的黄金王老五，表面风光无限，实则内心暴躁脆弱。我，朋友和妻子，两男一女组成的男男、男女和女男等多重复杂的关系，如杂乱的迷宫世界，不全是纯粹的同志爱情，也非真正的婚外遇，连最后的杀人放火的悲剧都不仅仅是发泄心中仇怨那么简单。无心引发的三角拉致关系渐渐走近崩溃毁灭的边缘。人性的丑陋和阴暗面显露出原本的模样，张牙舞爪地考验着每个人的抵抗能力。
古皓
回复 :不是巧合，相依為命的父女、愛酒的父親、起眼的道具，都衝着小津而來。Claire Denis（《影舞者瑪德》）獻給小津之作，如果不說，你只能認得出運鏡如寫詩的簽名樣式，也不會知道兩人可以這麼近。憂鬱的藍夜，迷宮似的公路網，交織樓房之間的地鐵路軌，高超的場面調度先寫孤寂的城市個性，然後人物放進去，不用多話，戲便自然在了。不放心女兒的父親，不想去愛的女兒，宛如親人的鄰里，凝聚成親和力極強的世界，展開連綿故事。小津會認同：生命有時，人要懂得放下。
手岛葵
回复 :一部纯粹表现大陆黄土高原风味的文学电影，由大陆导演黄建新执导，台湾演员张世担纲扮演男主角五魁。全片制作严谨，阐事手法亦颇有味道，可惜片中很多仪式性的场面安排却有着《大红灯笼高高挂》的浓厚影子，使本片的艺术价值打了不少折扣。
林蒙
回复 :Maurizio is a stubborn boy who grows up near the fiumara, where people throw away whatever they no longer need. This open-air dump becomes his playground, where among wrecked cars and other treasures large and small, he begins to dream of playing in the town band. Mamma Rosa looks on his musical aspirations as a childish whim, a luxury that the family cannot afford. And so, between the good advice by Mosè the donkey and the pranks by chicken N’Giulina, Maurizio is faced with a growing series of adventures and comes to the realization that, if his dream is to come true, he must be determined to see it through right to the end.
